Miserable People: 10 Traits & 11 Solutions [How not be Miserable]

Miserable People: 10 Traits & 11 Solutions [How not be Miserable]

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How do you find yourself so miserable if you really are? Miserable is similar to unhappy, then it’s easy to understand, miserable people are unhappy people. Miserable people do miserable things perpetually.

You’ve to understand the habits of miserable people and if you are miserable, you should accept the solution and focus on eliminating the habits.

After understanding and knowing the habits of miserable people, you will find the answer to this question: Am I so miserable? If your answer is YES, eliminate habits with the right solutions.

Miserable People always wandering around the guilt, resentment, envy, bad habits, and lot more bad things that won’t help to become happy people, and always push them toward the miserable life.

Here are the 10 habits of miserable people you’ve to eliminate.

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1. Miserable people are not grateful for anything.  

As we all know, a highly successful millionaire to a happy wanderer is always grateful for something to someone. Being grateful is so easy and everyone should need to be in order to make a beautiful and holy world. But in the case of miserable people, ‘Big No’ is an answer.

Miserable people are not grateful for one single thing that makes them miserable. As Robert Holden says “The real gift of gratitude is that the more grateful you are, the more present you become.”

Gratitude promotes optimism and helps us to develop a more positive outlook. According to Cicero, gratitude not only the greatest of the virtues but also the mother of all the other virtues.

If you don’t want to be a miserable person, you should follow happy people’s virtues. Act as happy people act. In short, be a clone of the happy people not just from the body but spirit.

Action step:- Show your gratitude toward the little things. Thanks to people even they are not worth that.

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2. Miserable people always live in the past.

Miserable or unhappy people live in the past
Unhappy or miserable people live in the past.

As we already covered in the first point, miserable people always live in the past. Their decisions are affected by conservative events. They are always driven by the past.

As Mick Jagger says, “The past is a great place and I don’t want to erase it or to regret it, but I don’t want to be its prisoner either.”

Action step:- Leave your past alone and learn from it, and then, move on.

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3. Miserable people lead a boring life.

Highly miserable people always live in a dull, boring, and unadventurous life. There is no possibility of an adventurous life because they are so coward. A highly miserable person always addicted to TV and cheap things.

As we all know, miserable people do miserable things and that makes their life so boring. When everything becomes so boring, they tend to believe that they are so boring. And the last thing is always last, what you believe, you will be.

Action step:- Get rid of boring life as we did to get rid of bad habit.

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4. Miserable people aren’t Risk taker.

Miserable or unhappy people aren't risk taker.
They don’t take risks.

Because life is so unadventurous, they are always afraid to take risks. They often tend to avoid risk. The common thing is, if you want to be a rich person, you should take risks. But in the case of a miserable person, they are coward to take risks and end up poor.

They have not an ounce of qualities rich and successful leaders possess. In the common sense realm, they are so poor people that make them so greedy.

They’ll become ill because of their money worries, and sometimes depressed and lose friends and family as a result.

Action step:- Take risk to become rich.

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5. Miserable people always fight with companions.

Miserable people always fight with companions for something that unrelated to their situations. They are not fighting for their goals but they often fight with someone who didn’t do his work perfectly.

Miserable people quickly point out from the worst situation that occurred by the others’ mistakes. By doing the wrong activities and take the worst actions, miserable people aren’t the favorite of their employers. They are the worst worker in their company.

Action step:- Stop being a bully of your companions. Don’t fight when it isn’t necessary. Show gratitude instead of fight.

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6. Miserable people are big blamer.

Miserable people or unhappy people are big blamers.
They are a big blamer.

Miserable people are a strong believer of blame. They believe that if they blame others for their mistakes they will be secure. People who often blame others always a lousy person on the earth. Most of the speakers or even the great leaders accept what they do in the wrong manner.

If you don’t want to be a miserable person you should learn from your mistake. Don’t look at your mistake as a failure. As Catherine Pulsifer says “We all make mistakes, the difference is what we do after we make the mistake, how we see the mistake – a learning experience or a failure.”

Action step:- Stop blaming others for your mistakes. Accept your mistake if you did. Try to learn from them. Don’t repeat that mistake again.

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7. Miserable people are a central point of dramas.

Miserable people always center point of all dramas in their lives and others. Most of the time, they are surrounded by family and community dramas.

They want to be an elite of drama not for solving drams but for exaggerating and devastating.

Action step:- Just stop it!

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8. Miserable people are negative.

Miserable or unhappy people are negative people.
Miserable people are negative people.

As we read throughout the article, miserable people are perpetually unhappy people. If they are unhappy people then they are so negative people because they have not a happy or creative point of view toward the bad circumstances.

They think they are the victim of life and bad circumstances. They think negatively so that they act negatively and believe negatively. Being negative is not a bad thing but act as negative and stay always on the negative side is a bad thing, and it makes you so miserable.

If your mind is full of negative thoughts, your life will be the same.

Action step:- Be a positive person even you are conflicted by the worst circumstances.

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9. Miserable people are too selfish.

Miserable people always focus on themselves. They always think and act in order to get rid of their own problems and to achieve their needs. Follow what Hugh Hefner says “It’s good to be selfish. But not so self-centered that you never listen to other people.”

Action step:– Be a selfish person but not too much.

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10. Miserable people worry too much.

Miserable or unhappy people worry too much.
Miserable or unhappy people worry too much.

Miserable people are not risk-taker and so that they are poor. Poverty makes them worry all the time about money and other many things. They don’t try to answer the questions that start with why. They are obsessed with situations and situations ever control over them.

Too much worrying about the little and simple things is the tendency of miserable people.

Action step:- Worry makes people miserable so don’t tense more.

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11. Miserable people are envious of others’ success.

If they are a big fan of blaming each other, then, they are a big fan of failure. They feel envy when someone is got what they want. Miserable people always spend time thinking about useless things, they do useless things and that’s why they fail. But when someone has become successful, they often tend to feel jealous.

The same goes for happiness, if they see someone is too happy they blame his own luck and says silently: they happy because his luck is good.

Action step:- Be honest if they got success because they did hard work for 90hrs/week.

If you feel miserable by reading through this blog post and to be honest, I feel miserable at some point, these are signs of you are miserable. Now you are aware of yourself (You know you are miserable).

It time to take action. As you read the blog, you will find action steps. Write it down in the blank paper and follow all these until you become a happy guy.

I am waiting for you in the comment section. Do you ever feel unhappy deeply? What kind of trait do you possess that we described in this blog?

Whatever your answer is, you are able to get rid of quickly. All the best! Just follow the steps of breaking bad habits article.

Rakshit Makvana

A man who loves his pen more than his tooth-brush. Books and the Typewriter are made me a voracious reader and writer and give the opportunity to share my wisdom.

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